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April 14, 2019

How To Deal With Stress

Stress Management & Self-Care

Stress has been a big theme in both my life and Mark’s. In 2013 I was completely burned out and I had to quit studying for almost a year. And only a few years ago, Mark was almost burned out from not enjoying what he did anymore. After that, we tried our very best to avoid this pitfall by learning a lot about how stress works and what we can do to deal with stress better.

What is stress?

Stress is mostly a physical reaction. When we are faced with a stressful situation, our body goes into ‘fight or flight (or freeze)’ mode. Our muscles get tense, the body may shut down certain functions and releases different hormones and chemicals like cortisol and adrenaline.

Long term effects of stress

Being stressed for a long time can result in high blood pressure, insomnia, neck and back pain, digestion issues and palpitations.

Work-related stress can result in burn-out. Not good… Symptoms of burn-out can be exhaustion, frustration, sleeping issues, concentration and memory issues, and head- and stomachaches.

An alarming amount of people are dealing with these stress-related issues, resulting in a lot of sick days. It’s a full-blown epidemic at this point. We are definitely living in a Stress Society.

Where does all that stress come from?

There are several factors contributing to the risk of getting burned out. It can develop from an imbalance between job demands like working overtime and high pressure to perform and resources like autonomy and social support.

The big 5

Additionally, certain personality traits can increase your risk of burn-out. The Five-Factor Model (Big 5 Personality Traits) scores people on five descriptors: openness, extraversion, agreeableness, conscientiousness, and neuroticism. People who score high on neuroticism have a higher risk of developing burnout. Also, burn-out is more common amongst people who are very committed to their jobs, have low self-esteem and who tend to blame the things they experience on external factors.

The Upside of Stress

However, stress isn’t per definition a bad thing. It also helps us survive by preparing us to face the challenge we’re up against. Stress in itself doesn’t have to be bad for us. It all comes down to how we view and experience it. This amazing TED talk by Kelly McGonigal radically changed our views on stress:

Tools to deal with stress

So, what can you do to start handling stress in a more constructive way?

  1. Change your mindset

    Start believing that stress isn’t harmful, but is actually your body trying to help you. Whenever I start to feel tense, I convince myself that that’s a good thing. I tell myself that I can handle the challenge and that my body is helping me focus and thrive.

  2. Turn off your phone/laptop after work

    If your work/obligations are stressing you out, make sure to disconnect and focus on relaxing. Recharge your battery. You don’t have to take care of everything right away and whatever it is, it can probably wait without the world ending.

  3. Spend time with loved ones

    Social support is an important energy resource that can help you have a better balance between your job demands and resources. Having a good talk with a relative or good friend also helps reduces stress.

  4. Do something active

    Go for a walk in nature (a walk around the city doesn’t have the same beneficial effects as going on walks in nature), do some yoga or go for a work-out. All of these are proven methods to reduce stress.

We’d love to know what you do to reduce stress and recharge. Please leave a comment if you have any good tips on how you deal with stress. Furthermore, you can read our article on how to stay organized with a business bullet journal for entrepreneurs!

Remember, sometimes doing the best you can is enough. Take care.

Cheers,
Maud & Mark

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Reader Interactions

14 Comments

  1. Vicki Baxter says

    April 14, 2019 at 1:39 pm

    Hi Maud & Mark, thank you so much for the tips. I work a 40 hour a week office job with almost an hour commute and I tend to burn-out every 6 months and get so exhausted that I can’t work. The active tip is especially useful. Getting some fresh air and going for a walk is always helpful. As of next week I’m working from home though because I’m moving, so hopefully no more burning out and getting so stressed!

    Vicki | http://www.missviclb.co.uk

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    • lifesworklab says

      April 14, 2019 at 8:47 pm

      Oof that sounds exhausting! I am glad you get to work from home and you feel that’s going to help you stay energized more. Good luck with the move!

      Reply
  2. Alicja says

    April 14, 2019 at 1:51 pm

    Great post, I will be giving that Ted Talk a watch soon. I’ve been learning to handle stress better so this has been really helpful. I’ve been burnt out before as well and it sucks big time. I think turning off technology and setting time aside just for you and away from work is so important.

    Alicja – populariswrong.co.uk

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    • lifesworklab says

      April 14, 2019 at 8:48 pm

      That’s great! Glad you found a way to handle stress better now. I agree, it’s super jmportant to disconnect sometimes. Thanks for your comment!

      Reply
  3. Jessica Cantell says

    April 15, 2019 at 12:12 am

    Thanks for the tips, it’s interesting to read about viewing it as not just a bad thing but something that could be helpful. I also find that exercise helps a lot, even if I don’t feel like it beforehand!!

    Jessica | http://www.jessicacantell.co.uk

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    • lifesworklab says

      April 15, 2019 at 11:22 am

      Exercise works great for me as well! Glad you found something that works for you! Thanks for your comment!

      Reply
  4. Michelle says

    April 20, 2019 at 3:54 am

    Great tips on how to deal with stress! Taking a short walk helps me when I’m stressed. Or just taking a minute to read a book even if it’s just a chapter.

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    • lifesworklab says

      April 27, 2019 at 10:29 pm

      Thank you! Glad you enjoyed the post and that you found something that helps you deal with stress! 🙂

      Reply
  5. Becky says

    August 24, 2019 at 1:13 pm

    Fab post Maud (&Mark!)! Currently very stressed as I am moving house haha

    Reply
    • lifesworklab says

      August 24, 2019 at 1:50 pm

      I totally understand. Moving house can be really stressful. However, it’s definitely going to be worth it! 😊 You got this!

      Reply
  6. Wine Enthusiast® Electric Automatic Wine Opener And Preserver says

    September 29, 2019 at 8:31 am

    Tips well considered!!

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  7. cuisinart Automatic wine opener says

    October 1, 2019 at 2:45 pm

    Seriously many of fantastic tips!

    Reply
    • lifesworklab says

      October 2, 2019 at 10:20 am

      Thank you! Glad you found this post useful!

      Reply

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